人是要用來愛的。
這是我這幾十年謹守的。
。。。。。。。
USED vs. LOVED
請用心及耐性去看這篇文章
While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.
一個爸爸正在歡天喜地去為新車子扮靚時，他發現6歲的兒子在車的另一邊用石頭在刮着他心愛的車門。
In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times;
not realizing he was using a wrench.
爸爸盛怒之下打了他兒子的手扳很多下，但他忘記了自己是拿着板手的
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.
在醫院裏他的兒子因手指太傷而需要完全切除。
When the child saw his father...
當兒子醒來看見自己的父親
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
眼睛裏充滿痛苦地問：爸爸，我的手指會長回嗎？
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
爸爸感到非常內疚並無言以對，於是他回到自己深愛的車子用力地踢了很多次
Devastated by his own actions.....
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
直至車子嚴重損毁，他才坐下來看看被兒子刮花的車門
the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
原來兒子在寫着'爸爸我愛你'。
The next day that man committed suicide. . .
在第二天早上，那爸爸自殺死了！
Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life.....
憤怒和愛是沒有限制的，如果你選擇後者，你便會享受美麗的人生...
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
物件是給我們用的，而人是要愛的。
But the problem in today's world is that,
但現今的社會卻是，
People are used and things are loved.
人是給我們利用的，而物件是用來愛的，
In this year, let's be careful to keep this thought in mind:
將來希望各位朋友緊記
Things are to be used,
but People are to be loved.
物件是為我們提供用處的，而人是需要被愛的。
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
要小心留意自己的思想，因它將會變成説話，
Watch your words; they become actions.
小心留意自己的說話，因它將變成行為。
Watch your actions; they become habits.
小心留意你的行為，因它將變成你的習慣。
Watch your habits they become character;
小心留意你的習慣，因它將變成你的性格。
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
小心留意你的性格，而它會變成你的命運。
I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder.
好感恩有朋友將這段文章傳給我，提醒我！
If you don't pass this on nothing bad will happen;
如果你不把這訊息與人分享，可能沒有事情會發生，
if you do, you might change someones life.
反之，可能會改變到某些人之生命。
Do you know the relationship between your two eyes?
你知道我們雙眼的關係嗎？
They blink together, move together, cry together, see things together & sleep together.
他們同時在眨，同時在動，同時留涙，同時看見東西，同時睡覺。
Even though they never see each other.
雖然他們從未看見對方，
Friendship should be just like that!
友誼可能就是這樣，雖然大家素未謀面！
Life is vanity without FRIENDS.
如果沒有朋友，生命便會虛渡
Who is your best friend? Send this to all your good friends.
想一想誰是你的好朋友，跟他分享一下吧！
